Like MJ's and Latharia's idea of where I've been - or maybe not - and where I'm going. So will save that for another post. And thank you both for the comments about my work, I don't 'do' compliments easily, but am very chuffed :)
Changed the background on here, thought it seemed like a good idea. But - isn't there always a but - I've lost every blessed link. Thankfully I was warned, so backed up a copy. Tonight will be spent putting them all back up again, yawn.
And a topic for another day, manners. Some people.